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Q: I've never been to therapy before. What should I expect?
A first session is mostly a conversation: Lauren will ask about what's bringing you in, what's been going on, and what you're hoping to get out of the process. There's no pressure to go deep immediately. Most men find the first session less uncomfortable than they anticipated, and some find it clarifying in ways they didn't expect.
Q: How many sessions will I need?
That depends on what you're working on and what kind of progress you want to make. Some men come in for a focused period of 10 to 15 sessions around a specific issue. Others work longer as they get into deeper patterns. Lauren will discuss pacing and goals with you, and nothing is locked in from the start.
Q: Do you take insurance?
Lauren does not accept insurance, but she does take HSA cards. Discounted sessions are available on a case-by-case basis, and she offers reduced rates for all service members — military, medical personnel, police officers, and firefighters. Reach out via the contact page to discuss rates.
Q: Do you offer online therapy?
Yes. Lauren offers telehealth sessions for clients throughout Colorado. If you're in Denver or elsewhere in the state, virtual sessions are available and work well for men who prefer the flexibility of meeting from their own space.
Q: Are female therapists better for men?
There's no universal answer. What matters most is fit, directness, and trust. Lauren's approach doesn't involve treating male clients as a category. She works from your specific experience, your history, and what you're actually showing up with. If gender feels like a concern, that's a conversation worth having directly.
Q: What if I'm not sure therapy is actually necessary?
A free 15-minute consultation call isn't a commitment to anything. It's a chance to ask questions and see whether this seems like a worthwhile use of your time. If it doesn't seem like the right fit after that call, Lauren will tell you honestly. There's no pressure to book ongoing sessions based on one conversation.
Q: What if I've tried therapy before and it didn't help?
That's more common than people realize, and it usually comes down to fit: the wrong approach, the wrong therapist, or a stage of life when you weren't quite ready. What didn't work then doesn't mean therapy doesn't work. If you're willing to say what fell flat before, Lauren can tell you whether her approach is likely to be different.
Men's Therapy FAQS
Frequently Asked Questions About Men's Therapy
It's a reasonable question: does it make sense to work with a female therapist as a man? The honest answer is that therapeutic fit matters more than gender. What matters is whether your therapist challenges you appropriately, earns your trust, and doesn't project assumptions onto who you are or what you should feel. Lauren works with male clients not by softening her approach but by calibrating it. She brings the same directness, the same willingness to name things plainly, and the same lack of interest in performing warmth she doesn't mean.
If you've wondered whether a female therapist can actually understand your experience as a man: bring that question to a first session. It's a more productive conversation than most people expect.
What About working with a female therapist?
The problem with "figure it out yourself" as a long-term strategy is that it works- up to a point. Men who are highly self-reliant often manage well until the load tips past what self-reliance can carry: a relationship in real trouble, a loss that won't resolve, anxiety that's bleeding into sleep and focus and daily function. At that point, the tools that got you here start to fall short.
What therapy offers isn't a replacement for resilience. It's a different kind of tool, one that creates space to examine the patterns that run beneath the surface, not just manage the symptoms at the top. Most men who try it describe not a sense of weakness, but a sense of relief. Not because the problems disappear, but because they're finally being looked at directly.
The Cost of Going it Alone
There's no mystery to the numbers. Men seek therapy at significantly lower rates than women, and the reasons are structural, not personal. The culture around emotional expression for men is different: not always hostile, but often simply absent. Many men grew up in environments where talking about internal experience wasn't modeled, wasn't rewarded, and in some cases was actively discouraged. That's not a character flaw. It's a product of a system that didn't prepare men for this kind of self-examination.
why men don't go to therapy (and why that's changing)
the elephant in the room
Lauren holds an MA and is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) licensed in Colorado, regulated by DORA (the Department of Regulatory Agencies). She is a member of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy (AAMFT) and is verified through Psychology Today. She trained at the University of Colorado Boulder. She integrates modalities rather than defaulting to a single protocol, because people are too varied for one-size-fits-all therapy.
If you've had bad experiences with therapy before, or no experiences at all, that's worth naming in a first session. Starting is easier than it sounds.
Lauren sees a significant number of men in both individual and couples sessions- not because she markets to them, but because her style tends to resonate. She is direct without being confrontational. She doesn't dress up hard observations in so much softness that the point gets lost. And she doesn't confuse kindness with letting someone stay comfortable with patterns that are costing them.
Her clinical background stretches across private practice, agency work, university counseling, and intensive outpatient (IOP) settings, which means she's worked with men across a wide range of presentations, from high-functioning professionals navigating quiet disconnection to men working through significant emotional dysregulation, relational trauma, and behavioral patterns with real consequences. That breadth matters. It means she's not working from a narrow frame.
- Collin R.
If you're seeking to understand, make a change, or work through any type of mental health, then what you need is Lauren. She is the best therapist/provider I have seen in my past few years of therapy. Both for Couple or Individual. She is kind, understanding, but won't take any crap either. She will call you out, but in a way that makes you want to change yourself. She is a catalyst for the change that one makes within themselves.
If you're seeking to understand, make a change, or work through any type of mental health, then what you need is Lauren. She is the best therapist/provider I have seen in my past few years of therapy. Both for Couple or Individual. She is kind, understanding, but won't take any crap either. She will call you out, but in a way that makes you want to change yourself. She is a catalyst for the change that one makes within themselves.
What Makes Lauren Different From Other Mens' therapists?
see how lauren approaches therapy
There's also room for humor. Lauren's sessions have a certain gravity when the work calls for it, but they're not uniformly heavy. If you've ever processed something difficult by laughing at the absurdity of it, that's not avoidance. It's a sign you might work well together.
With male clients specifically, Lauren brings directness to the forefront. Sessions aren't passive. She's not going to reflect your words back at you and call it progress. She'll name what she's observing, ask the questions that cut through the surface, and move toward something concrete. She also draws on Internal Family Systems (IFS), which gives language to the different parts of a person that can seem to be in conflict with each other: the part that wants connection, the part that keeps people at arm's length, the part that performs competence while running on empty underneath.
What to expect from men's therapy with Lauren
Lauren's Approach
- You're high-functioning on the outside but disconnected from what you're actually feeling, or don't know why you react the way you do.
- Your relationship is struggling and you suspect the issue isn't jsut your partner, but you're not sure where to start unpacking your own part in it.
- You shut down or go cold when conversations get emotionally charged, and you hate that you do it but can't seem to stop.
- You've hit a transition — career change, divorce, fatherhood, loss, a milestone birthday — and the ground doesn't feel as solid as it used to.
- You've never been to therapy before and you're skeptical, but something has made you consider it now.
- You want more from your inner life: not just less pain, but more mental clarity, more depth, more honest connection with the people who matter to you.
How do i know if i need men's therapy?
Who this is for
Most men who end up seeing a therapist didn't plan on it. For many, something within them got loud enough that ignoring it stopped working. Sometimes it's a relationship hitting a wall and staying there. For others, it's a low-grade dissatisfaction with their careers or personal growth that doesn't have a name but makes everything feel a little muted. Or maybe you're starting to see a version of yourself in the mirror that you don't recognize.
You've probably tried the obvious things: push through, stay busy, handle what's in front of you. That works for a long time. Until it doesn't.
That's where therapy comes in.
There's a decent chance therapy has never seemed like it was built for you. Frankly, a lot of it isn't. The language tends to land wrong. The framing doesn't always match how men actually experience things. But the issues men bring in are just as real, and they respond to the right kind of work—with the right kind of therapist.
Lauren Aldridge, MA, LMFT, is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist based in Denver, who works with a significant number of men in both individual and couples sessions throughout Colorado, both in person and online. Her approach is grounded in attachment theory and is notably direct. She asks the questions that cut through, names what she's observing, and moves toward something concrete. A lot of men find that a better fit than the softer, more passive therapy they either tried once and dismissed, or avoided altogether.
Want to see if you and Lauren are a good fit? A free 15-minute consultation call is a great place to start.
